Characteristics:
INFP -- lawful neutral -- centrist -- phlegmatic/melancholic + slight sanguine -- down-to-earth dreamer -- gullible -- cultural Lutheran on the preference to believer -- getting easily side-tracked
Likes: linguistics -- my own culture and foreign ones -- tea -- sweets -- loyalty/fidelity/faithfulness
Dislikes: disloyalty/infidelity/unfaithfulness -- immature behavior -- people who are in my way -- modern arts and modern architecture -- littering
Music:
C/K/J pop, Touhou, Vocaloid, etc.: female voices; English + German songs: male voices
Languages: German: dominant mother (or rather: father) language -- Romanian (poorly developed mother language) -- English (B2 niveau) -- French (B1 niveau) -- Spanish (basics)
so far the scores mean:
* 10 (at the time of scoring, I really liked the show. Fully enjoyed watching it)
* 9 (high enjoyment, but lacks some aspects to make me a real fan of this series)
* 8 (standard score for an amusing show, but nothing special)
* 7 (decent enough to not be boring but lacks a little enjoyment)
* 6 (I had to trudge through that show on some parts)
Mm it's not efficient at all. Spreadsheets & emails are reasonably doable (if there's room to sit down that is). I got hooked into the immersion learning fad for Japanese but usually it's TedTalks & Youtube videos. The newer trains are a bit less noisy, as long as there aren't school students swarming in lol.
I usually feel paying money saves a lot of time & effort in the long run from having to schedule, research & figure things out on your own, & the payment is also a commitment. Someone like a parent could keep accountability too. I wish my parents were stricter though they were rarely home when I was young.
Learning techniques are to spend less time on things you have to learn but aren't interested in :p Different topics have a different approach that makes learning faster, I usually take a journal & change my approaches every few weeks, so it's more learning to learn than learning the topic itself.
A friend of a friend dropped out in 10th grade to do an apprenticeship and had a carpentry business by the time the rest of us were drowning in student debt lol.
I have a few of those fabric pull carts (forgot the name for them). It used to be easier to "borrow" a shopping cart from the supermarket but they have stricter restrictions now.
Hmm there was a German duet song that I used to loop while commuting, though what I still remember are the Eurodance artists like Basshunter & Mo-Do.
Do you have any favorites or recommendations?
My current workplace is an hour away except the amount of incidences usually make it 2 hours instead. I use that time to take a nap instead lol. Maybe if I'm motivated I do some work, download some language files or podcasts for passive listening, or manga, but it's hard to get anything much done over the noise and congestion.
Personally, I think the most effective "motivation" is having a quality coach that chases you down so you don't have any time left to think about other distractions. Someone who's harsh but you respect and whom rarely gives compliments but does so at the best times.
What'd you do after college? I somewhat liked the childhood-extending feel of going to university. It was basically a waste of time & student debt for a sheet of paper but was an excuse to put off getting a job lol.
I stock up on rice whenever it's on discount at the supermarket, which is every month or two. The goal is to get 3 bags next time 💪
No pressure to click the vids, they're just examples :v I haven't watched them in full either
I've listened to a bit of German a long time ago. Nowadays it's just Rammstein because that's what people always send xD
Kami-Nai is the anime that "Birth" is the opening of (at least I think you meant that one).
That is a magnificent bird! Are herons common where you live? Supposedly we have a few species here too but I've never seen one.
Oh, I see. I haven't been paying attention to the forums lately, so I hope it's nothing too bad. Yeah, participating in arguments can definitely be a waste of time and nerves, so it's one way to get tired of posting, especially if someone is actively seeking to get you into one.
Interesting :) on the contrary, I sometimes tend to reduce my post count by deleting some useless posts on topics like "what is your favorite food?" or the old rating-related posts that are no longer relevant etc.
Mhm negative reinforcement is one way to look at it, fear & admiration are both useful depending on the situation. (I'm going to ramble a lot so it'll go in a spoiler)
People can be unbothered by being different though being average is much easier.
For example, I am terrible at small talk, but it rubs on from all the interviews, clients & networking. One time I had an interviewer who spent 5 minutes talking about public transport being late before & after. I was there thinking "what is he talking about? the transport was fine". He seemed extremely pleased with everything else so presumably that cost me the job LOL...and here I am now subjecting others to the cursed "how are the trains today" conversation like it's second nature.
About lack of drive...
Motivational videos are far from one size fits all. e.g. the 200k subscriber self-help YouTubers "I wanted to quit my gaming addiction so I dropped out of college, moved countries and became a YouTuber" or Jonny Kim the navy seal, doctor, astronaut, etc who had an abusive father.
When a video mentions "life purpose" I know it's about to be a load of unrelatable bull. Not everyone has a life-threatening childhood, nor has the inherent drive to drop out of college, become a YouTuber, or commit to something super specific. It'd be more motivational to watch something relatable, like how to fillet a fish, which might motivate you to actually get away from wasting time & do something slightly more productive, which gives the momentum to keep going.
I'm not poor, I have no reason I need to earn more money. I don't have anyone I need to impress. I volunteer occasionally because helping people makes me happy, but that's far from a life goal.
I'm naturally thin, I don't need to exercise. If anything, bulking up deincentivises working out.
So instead I use everyday activities as motivation for strength training. I need to go grocery shopping & buy two 10kg bags of rice & walk home 15 minutes from the supermarket with them. Most everyday objects are awkwardly shaped (like when a heavy delivery arrives in a box that has no handles), so grip training helps a lot.
Backtraining & exercising a little every day since I want to be jumping around & illness free at 80 (my grandma's 90, she takes a walk in the park every morning & even now she doesn't need a cane).
As for videos, I found this video by a League of Legends pro relateable (though it's been a decade since I last played it). Most will talk about "I quit games & my life is amazing!", & sell their own strategy as a magic medicine that fits all, he only humbly talks about his own experience which is what makes him so admirable. In addition he does the impossible and is proficient at multiple very everyday hobbies. I also like Justin Sung's videos since his methods are the same conclusion that I've come to as well.
Instrumentals used to be a lot nicer. The Borgman OPEDs are actually metal bands. I remember when there was a craze around Plastic Love a while back, many of the slower songs have a sort of city pop beat to them.
I prefer male & female equally, though the genres with male vocals are far less common in anime.
KOTOKO sounded awful at first but she grew on me after 3 seasons of Shana xD (& all the games she's in) Kannazuki ED is really nostalgic, the Toradora songs too.
Oh PSO2 has a rhythm game? The pop-up text is amusing, sort of like the scrolling chat on niconico. I'm a huge Kami-Nai shill but it's hard to find others who enjoy it.
Mitsuko & Yui Horie are probably unrelated but it's funny to think of it. I did see that TRUSTRICK 🙏 is the daughter of Seiko Matsuda though, I'd never have realised despite liking them both.
:o I want to see a hedgehog someday.
Simple names have a nice feel. They're a bit hard to search for though.
I do recognise Hoshizora (mostly because the songs were popular in osu! :v)
We have a bunch of backyard wildlife here, birds, possums, lizards & the sort.
Mm it's about time to rotate out the pics since it's already March (I had a single happy new year pic for the whole of last year).
Do you have a story behind your profile picture & username?
That's an interesting quote & definitely important. My idea there was more surface level; an immersion/conforming sort of thing like being more competitive/motivated to do hobby you're in a community for, or if everyone around you is positive it makes you think a bit more positively too. It doesn't always work but it's still nice to take advantage of if there's a community of people you want to become more like nearby.
Yep anisong is just anime songs :v
I could never commit to pvp games for those reasons because it's a gamble whether you end your day's free time ecstatic or pissed off xD
It's always exciting to get along with strangers, just one pleasant person is enough to make my day.
Ooo, I didn't remember much from zts besides Umineko. Forte Escape is usually the first artist who comes to mind (apparently he runs a restaurant now).
Yea the days blur when every day is the same. It's a bit scary.
Natural sunlight is always a happy thing~
Summer's about to end here so the bugs & birds are going away too. There's been some turkeys roaming my roof & getting into the house lately which is annoying but funny.
Hmm finding a purpose is the hard part of being lucky enough to choose :') Purpose & appreciation sort of tie in with the people you spend time around, which is a *little* easier to change. That being said, my friends already have successful careers while the most I've been motivated was trying to listen to every anisong xD
I always respect people willing to argue since it puts out thoughts that others would rather not say (of course in moderation).
Dang, S4 League is an unfamiliar name, it looks like such a throwback. What was the game/community like?
(I do remember Pentavision for DJ Max though)
Pubg was popular ~2017 when battle royales were the trend. It was like the plague :v
The days go by super fast huh...I can't believe it's already been 3 days since your last message & nearing the end of February.
Eh I'm still as lost in life as anyone else, trying things & seeing what sticks.
Seeing a doctor is sort of unfulfilling here. It's always a cycle of getting scans & poked with needles for months on end. They have crazy good social skills though, it's a tough job to make patients feel good about themselves~
I don't play much games nowadays (unless others drag me into the hole like with gachas). Have you played anything lately?
My dad's away with relatives for my grandma's 90th. My mom & I don't have the month to spare unfortunately though, usually she's at the lab late then comes home & works. It must be nice being close to relatives, they become more valuable over the years. My cousin's married with a kid too, it's funny since the last time I saw him he was talking about how Pubg was his life xD
I have bread for lunch every day too (usually sourdough since it stays good for the longest), it's a godsend for lazy people lol. There's a bunch of asian bakeries near the station with choco cornets & stuff that my parents like to get.
Do you have any tips for dealing with burnout? I always watch my diet, sleep, exercise, water, sunlight/nature/fresh air etc since those seem to feed into each other, it's really hard to get out of. My expectations are usually low (albiet weird sometimes), I'd rather be appreciative for what does happen. I like to keep on & offline separate too, similar to separating work from home.
> I can find other ways to waste time
Something always manages to find it's way into free time. There's too much to do :v
> voice or just direct messaging?
Small servers/channels. I rarely have the energy for voice but it's nice having a supportive community.
> how long does it take you to visit them?
They're close, though my extended family lives too far away to visit. My dad's out of the country so I'm watching out for my mom who's always working late (have to make sure she isn't living off chocolate chip cookies lol).
How are things with your family?
Yeah, it's hardly worth spending your limited energy thinking about negative comments. Do you mean burnt out online, with real life or a bit of both?
> for something productive, for creative work, for leisure or for deepening connections or even bonding with people who matter
Ideally that's what would happen but my average day is more like get home, write some emails, do gacha dailies then crash & read webtoons or talk to friends on Discord lol. There's so many hobbies I'd want to pick up again, like piano, but the motivation is just not there. I'm checking in more on my parents lately at least.
I did ignore him at first but replying is more amusing lol, plus you get to meet some new people. (I'll probably stop though, should spend my time more wisely)
Oh, you're posting again :p
I never really investigated MAL clubs in detail, so it's a bit surprising to hear that some are alive enough for people to post there regularly, instead of the forums :)
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I usually feel paying money saves a lot of time & effort in the long run from having to schedule, research & figure things out on your own, & the payment is also a commitment. Someone like a parent could keep accountability too. I wish my parents were stricter though they were rarely home when I was young.
Learning techniques are to spend less time on things you have to learn but aren't interested in :p Different topics have a different approach that makes learning faster, I usually take a journal & change my approaches every few weeks, so it's more learning to learn than learning the topic itself.
A friend of a friend dropped out in 10th grade to do an apprenticeship and had a carpentry business by the time the rest of us were drowning in student debt lol.
I have a few of those fabric pull carts (forgot the name for them). It used to be easier to "borrow" a shopping cart from the supermarket but they have stricter restrictions now.
Hmm there was a German duet song that I used to loop while commuting, though what I still remember are the Eurodance artists like Basshunter & Mo-Do.
Do you have any favorites or recommendations?
Personally, I think the most effective "motivation" is having a quality coach that chases you down so you don't have any time left to think about other distractions. Someone who's harsh but you respect and whom rarely gives compliments but does so at the best times.
What'd you do after college? I somewhat liked the childhood-extending feel of going to university. It was basically a waste of time & student debt for a sheet of paper but was an excuse to put off getting a job lol.
I stock up on rice whenever it's on discount at the supermarket, which is every month or two. The goal is to get 3 bags next time 💪
No pressure to click the vids, they're just examples :v I haven't watched them in full either
I've listened to a bit of German a long time ago. Nowadays it's just Rammstein because that's what people always send xD
Kami-Nai is the anime that "Birth" is the opening of (at least I think you meant that one).
That is a magnificent bird! Are herons common where you live? Supposedly we have a few species here too but I've never seen one.
Interesting :) on the contrary, I sometimes tend to reduce my post count by deleting some useless posts on topics like "what is your favorite food?" or the old rating-related posts that are no longer relevant etc.
Instrumentals used to be a lot nicer. The Borgman OPEDs are actually metal bands. I remember when there was a craze around Plastic Love a while back, many of the slower songs have a sort of city pop beat to them.
I prefer male & female equally, though the genres with male vocals are far less common in anime.
KOTOKO sounded awful at first but she grew on me after 3 seasons of Shana xD (& all the games she's in) Kannazuki ED is really nostalgic, the Toradora songs too.
Oh PSO2 has a rhythm game? The pop-up text is amusing, sort of like the scrolling chat on niconico. I'm a huge Kami-Nai shill but it's hard to find others who enjoy it.
Mitsuko & Yui Horie are probably unrelated but it's funny to think of it. I did see that TRUSTRICK 🙏 is the daughter of Seiko Matsuda though, I'd never have realised despite liking them both.
:o I want to see a hedgehog someday.
Simple names have a nice feel. They're a bit hard to search for though.
I do recognise Hoshizora (mostly because the songs were popular in osu! :v)
I like most things 80s to 00s, though friends know me for Borgman, GACKT, KOTOKO, Kitaeri & the Hories (Yui & Mitsuko)
We have a bunch of backyard wildlife here, birds, possums, lizards & the sort.
Mm it's about time to rotate out the pics since it's already March (I had a single happy new year pic for the whole of last year).
Do you have a story behind your profile picture & username?
Yep anisong is just anime songs :v
I could never commit to pvp games for those reasons because it's a gamble whether you end your day's free time ecstatic or pissed off xD
It's always exciting to get along with strangers, just one pleasant person is enough to make my day.
Ooo, I didn't remember much from zts besides Umineko. Forte Escape is usually the first artist who comes to mind (apparently he runs a restaurant now).
Yea the days blur when every day is the same. It's a bit scary.
Natural sunlight is always a happy thing~
Summer's about to end here so the bugs & birds are going away too. There's been some turkeys roaming my roof & getting into the house lately which is annoying but funny.
I always respect people willing to argue since it puts out thoughts that others would rather not say (of course in moderation).
Dang, S4 League is an unfamiliar name, it looks like such a throwback. What was the game/community like?
(I do remember Pentavision for DJ Max though)
Pubg was popular ~2017 when battle royales were the trend. It was like the plague :v
The days go by super fast huh...I can't believe it's already been 3 days since your last message & nearing the end of February.
Seeing a doctor is sort of unfulfilling here. It's always a cycle of getting scans & poked with needles for months on end. They have crazy good social skills though, it's a tough job to make patients feel good about themselves~
I don't play much games nowadays (unless others drag me into the hole like with gachas). Have you played anything lately?
My dad's away with relatives for my grandma's 90th. My mom & I don't have the month to spare unfortunately though, usually she's at the lab late then comes home & works. It must be nice being close to relatives, they become more valuable over the years. My cousin's married with a kid too, it's funny since the last time I saw him he was talking about how Pubg was his life xD
I have bread for lunch every day too (usually sourdough since it stays good for the longest), it's a godsend for lazy people lol. There's a bunch of asian bakeries near the station with choco cornets & stuff that my parents like to get.
> I can find other ways to waste time
Something always manages to find it's way into free time. There's too much to do :v
> voice or just direct messaging?
Small servers/channels. I rarely have the energy for voice but it's nice having a supportive community.
> how long does it take you to visit them?
They're close, though my extended family lives too far away to visit. My dad's out of the country so I'm watching out for my mom who's always working late (have to make sure she isn't living off chocolate chip cookies lol).
How are things with your family?
> for something productive, for creative work, for leisure or for deepening connections or even bonding with people who matter
Ideally that's what would happen but my average day is more like get home, write some emails, do gacha dailies then crash & read webtoons or talk to friends on Discord lol. There's so many hobbies I'd want to pick up again, like piano, but the motivation is just not there. I'm checking in more on my parents lately at least.
I never really investigated MAL clubs in detail, so it's a bit surprising to hear that some are alive enough for people to post there regularly, instead of the forums :)
Have a nice day !!