Did you and your buddy not get together after this. I had a similar experience, but the buddy was always keen to have another look and feel.
Finding Out that a Male Friend is Small?
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Finding out a friend is small shouldn’t affect the friendship. It appears I was born to play the role of “the friend with the small dick”. So being the “size challenged” friend in most scenarios, I expect discretion if a friend somehow found out that I was small. They should treat it as my personal private info and definitely not tell anyone else about it. Growing up I was outed for having a small dick by a “friend”…so I get a little shell-shocked showing my dick in public around any guys I might know. So for the most part I always try to keep a level of mystery between my friends and not place myself in a situation where they would see me naked. I also make it a point to respect their space, to leave or turn away if they are changing or nude for some reason. If by some chance, after all my efforts, a friend still found out my size, and if said friend chose to share that info with others, I would consider that a breach of trust and reconsider that friendship.
Basically my big bro, best friends, didn’t change a thing, still look up to and respect him, though he does make a comment on my size now and again. Nothing’d change if i were him. Definite bond
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Doesnt change a thing if they got a good heart i will remain friends with them. Penis size, money, and who are they dating is not my business
I had a buddy and eventual roommate who knew I was above average as I wasn’t shy about showing off. One day I did see his when he was stepping out of the shower and looked down and said “it’s nothing like your monster but it still works”. Honestly I felt sort of bad. Not pitty but more of an ass for showing off and being dumb and here he was all self conscious. It didn’t change how I saw him but more of how I acted around him. I didn’t want him to feel bad about who he is.
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Not a friend but a mature guy at my gym. We always work out at the same time so I see him every day.
He's put on some bulk in his upper torso and arms.
I saw him coming out of the shower and his dick was a small cut head poking out of his hairy bush.
It was actually quite small. I don't know why but I was surprised because he lifts weights I somehow expected bigger.....
He's put on some bulk in his upper torso and arms.
I saw him coming out of the shower and his dick was a small cut head poking out of his hairy bush.
It was actually quite small. I don't know why but I was surprised because he lifts weights I somehow expected bigger.....
Thanks. I like to think I’m a nice guy!
My friendships are not based on penis size, I don't see how it would effect things if a friend was small.
I was taking a pee at a trough-like urinal, a friend lined up next to me. I said, jokingly “don’t judge, I’m cold”, he said “nah, that’s quite big” (I sometimes have a decent sized flop), me, being drunk, looked over and replied “yeah, in comparison”. We both laughed, he didn’t take it to heart. I don’t think of him any differently, he’s a great guy.
I agree. I enjoy talking about cock size too, but mine is small.
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One of my best friends was this rugged masculine straight alpha type. He wore a bikini swimsuit and I didn’t really think of it then but eventually saw him hard. His cock was like my pinky. Very small. Once he knew I was so much bigger he brought it up quite a bit. Soon after he stopped being friends and just cut me off. I’m pretty sure that was the reason. He couldn’t stand me being so much bigger. Ten years of friendship over. Crazy.
I’ve had the opposite today, a friend at the bar. Everyone knows he’s hung, lined up, dude has like 6 1/2 on flop. I made a comment how I’m not that big hard. We both laughed.
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I don't care what size of dick my friends have. Unless we're planning on having sex or BJs then it doesn't affect me
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I remember when I found out that my best friend had a small one. We were changing into our swimsuits in the same room and I couldn’t help but notice that he had a tiny cock. I will admit it made me feel superior and I got so turned on seeing his eyes get big while he stole glances of my much bigger cock. After that experience, I always felt a little sorry for him.
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Mostly feeling surprised but it isn’t effect anything. I feel surprised because I’m only 1.68 cm tall, so many of my friend in soccer or cycling circle taller than me. Finding out their penises are small especially when pee is too soon to judge as they are soft, some I presume that would be longer more if it’s hard.
I had one close friend in college who dated a guy for about two years. She was notoriously promiscuous, he had a slightly smaller than average penis. She preferred big dick, but she wasn't a size queen - she loved fucking him. She was loyal, and she was ready to marry the guy. I liked him and was happy for them.
His insecurities (about his dick and other things) chased her away. This isn't "her side of the story," either - it's observation. I watched this guy become overprotective, suspicious, jealous, and annoying over time. She dumped him when it came pretty close to him fighting an ex boyfriend of hers over nothing. Still, I hung out with the guy a bit, because he was otherwise fun to hang out with.
Their breakup worked out in my favor, because she and I had been friends for years but it was a few weeks after that relationship that we first had sex. She told me after the first time we fucked that I made her legs numb for the first time in years, and I mentioned that I think it was my length - I noticed her enjoying when I hit her A-spot. She agreed, and she told me sadly that the ex boyfriend (and most men she had been with) couldn't hit that spot. I gently suggested that, although I love talking about the past, I didn't want to know specifics about guys I knew, and she said something along the lines of "I'm sorry, I haven't been able to unload that frustration...he was pretty small, like 5 inches and thin. I loved it, but yeah, this is better," and stroked my half-hard cock.
I obviously felt great about pleasing this woman and giving her a size she wanted, but damn...I felt so bad for that guy, and I basically told her never to talk about his size again, to anyone.
His insecurities (about his dick and other things) chased her away. This isn't "her side of the story," either - it's observation. I watched this guy become overprotective, suspicious, jealous, and annoying over time. She dumped him when it came pretty close to him fighting an ex boyfriend of hers over nothing. Still, I hung out with the guy a bit, because he was otherwise fun to hang out with.
Their breakup worked out in my favor, because she and I had been friends for years but it was a few weeks after that relationship that we first had sex. She told me after the first time we fucked that I made her legs numb for the first time in years, and I mentioned that I think it was my length - I noticed her enjoying when I hit her A-spot. She agreed, and she told me sadly that the ex boyfriend (and most men she had been with) couldn't hit that spot. I gently suggested that, although I love talking about the past, I didn't want to know specifics about guys I knew, and she said something along the lines of "I'm sorry, I haven't been able to unload that frustration...he was pretty small, like 5 inches and thin. I loved it, but yeah, this is better," and stroked my half-hard cock.
I obviously felt great about pleasing this woman and giving her a size she wanted, but damn...I felt so bad for that guy, and I basically told her never to talk about his size again, to anyone.
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Once some guys know they are so much bigger than you their attitude definitely changes as they think they have one over you when arguing and the threat of them revealing your “secret” is implied.,.luckily these arseholes are in the minority
Does he realize you feel sorry for him? You think he senses that? I'm smaller myself and I feel like that's how guys think about me when they see it or find out about it.
